Under 30 with fewer than two children?
Carefully consider the following points before undergoing a vasectomy.
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You may later regret the decision. Men who undergo a vasectomy in their 20s, especially those with fewer than two children, are more likely to seek a reversal later and may experience regret if the reversal is unsuccessful.
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Women's desires may change over time. Women who feel no desire for children in their early 20s may develop a strong desire for them in their 30s, especially as many of their friends begin starting families.
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You may change your mind. Many men who are certain they don’t want children in their early 20s find themselves embracing fatherhood in their 30s. While you may be fully convinced now, your perspective could be very different 10 years from now.
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Relationships can change. You may not be with the same partner ten years from now, and a new partner might have a stronger desire for children. Even if your current partner says they never want children, their feelings could change over time, or they may not be your partner in the future.
A vasectomy should be viewed as a permanent.
Before proceeding, make sure you fully understand all your options.
Have you discussed it with your parents?
While the final decision is yours, remember that they played a key role in shaping who you are today. Think about how you'd feel if your son came to you, announcing that he'd had a vasectomy—an irreversible choice that could limit his chance of fatherhood, and your chance of becoming a grandparent. Involving them shows respect for their perspective. Even if their advice leads you to reconsider, you might one day be grateful for their insight. If they continue to support your decision, they may even help cover the costs of options like sperm storage, making the process a shared and positive experience.